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A number of circumstances can make existing child custody arrangements undesirable or unworkable. When such conditions exist, it is important for parents to go through the proper legal channels to seek child custody modification.
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Reasons for Child Custody Modification
It is a fact that life changes. However, when circumstances change, a child custody modification is often needed to adjust the pre-existing order and set up more appropriate guidelines for custody and visitation.
Reasons to modify custody include:
Changes to job or income: a significant change in income might make current visitation unworkable, or if a parent's schedule or job status changes, the current visitation schedule may no longer be possible.
Relocation: in addition to determining whether relocation is permitted, new schedules will need to be established to ensure that both parents are able to maintain a relationship with the child.
Remarriage: to determine if modification of child custody is necessary, the parents should consider if and how the remarriage affects the children.
Disability or illness: a parent or child who is disabled may need additional help for frequent medical care, special diets, or development of any other special needs.
Abuse or neglect: if one parent has been abusive or neglectful to the child, the other parent will want a child custody modification to limit access to the abusive parent.
Changes in the child: as children age, their wishes may change. Additionally, the child's needs may change as they age, making one home or the other more suitable.
Legal Requirements for Child Custody Modifications in Missouri
Modifying a child custody order in Missouri is not automatic. The parent requesting the change must prove that a substantial change in circumstances has occurred.
When a Parent is Eligible to Request a Modification
Either parent can request a modification if there has been a major change in circumstances that affects the child's well-being.
The requesting parent must show that the current custody arrangement no longer serves the best interests of the child.
Missouri Laws Regarding Custody Modifications
Missouri law requires that a custody modification must be in the best interests of the child.
The parent requesting the change must file a motion with the family court, outlining the reasons for the modification.
The Burden of Proof for Demonstrating a Significant Change in Circumstances
The parent seeking modification must provide evidence that the current arrangement is no longer appropriate.
Examples of significant changes include:
A parent relocating
Changes in a parent’s ability to provide care (illness, disability, job loss)
Evidence of abuse, neglect, or substance abuse
The child's preference (if they are old enough)
How to File for a Child Custody Modification
Steps to Request a Custody Modification
Consult a Family Law Attorney – Legal guidance can help ensure you file correctly.
Prepare a Motion for Modification – This legal document explains why the change is needed.
File the Motion with the Court – Submit the paperwork to the family court handling the case.
Serve the Other Parent – The other parent must receive notice of the request.
Attend Court Hearings – Both parents may need to appear in court to present their case.
Required Legal Documents and Court Forms
A Motion to Modify Custody
Financial disclosure forms (if child support is affected)
Evidence supporting the requested change
What to Expect During the Legal Process
The judge may order mediation to help parents reach an agreement.
If parents cannot agree, the court will schedule a hearing where both sides present evidence.
How Courts Decide Custody Modifications
Judges carefully evaluate modification requests to ensure they align with the child’s best interests.
Factors Judges Consider When Reviewing Modification Requests
Parental stability – Can both parents provide a safe and stable home?
Child’s needs – Are the child's educational, medical, and emotional needs being met?
Parental behavior – Has one parent engaged in harmful activities (e.g., abuse, neglect, substance abuse)?
The Child’s Best Interests Standard in Missouri
The court prioritizes what is best for the child, not the convenience of the parents.
The child’s relationship with each parent, school situation, and overall well-being are considered.
The Role of Parental Cooperation and Stability
Courts favor parents who cooperate and communicate effectively.
A stable home environment is crucial for approval of a custody modification
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) About Child Custody Modifications in Missouri
Can I modify custody without going to court?
In some cases, yes. If both parents agree to the custody modification, they can submit a mutual agreement to the court for approval. However, if there is a dispute, a court hearing will be required.
Does my child get to choose which parent to live with?
The court may consider the child’s preference, especially if they are older and mature enough to express a reasoned choice. However, the final decision is always based on what is in the child’s best interests, not just their preference.
Can I move out of state with my child after modifying custody?
If you plan to relocate, you must notify the other parent and the court at least 60 days in advance. The other parent can contest the move, and a judge will determine whether relocation is in the child’s best interest.
What happens if the other parent doesn’t follow the new custody order?
If a parent violates the modified custody order, you can file a motion for enforcement with the court. The judge may impose penalties, modify the order further, or even adjust custody arrangements in response to repeated violations.
Will Modifying Custody Affect Child Support Payments?
Yes, a change in custody may impact child support obligations. The parent who gains more custody time may receive more child support, while the other parent may see a decrease in their payments. If you believe the court’s decision was unfair or incorrect, you may have the option to file an appeal to request a review of the ruling. Appeals must be filed within a specific timeframe and require a strong legal argument.
How often can I request a custody modification?
There is no strict limit, but courts discourage frequent modifications unless a major change in circumstances occurs. Filing too often without valid reasons may result in the court dismissing your request.
Can grandparents or other family members request custody modifications?
In certain cases, grandparents, step-parents, or other guardians may seek custody modifications if they can prove that the current arrangement harms the child or that the parents are unfit.
How Our St. Louis Child Custody Attorneys Can Help
Child custody is one area of family law that is often passionately contested. If you need to change your custody or visitation arrangements, you should seek a modification whether or not the other parent agrees with the changes requested. This way, if the other parent changes their mind later you are protected by the legal arrangement.
Life Changes—Your Custody Arrangement Should Too. If your current custody order no longer works, let us help. Contact us at (314) 441-7793 to schedule a consultation!
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